Who to love?

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So, my ex-boyfriend and I broke up nine months ago, due the fact that he couldn't handle me whenever I'm at my lowest. I suffer from bipolar disorder and anxiety attacks, and he just couldn't handle me and decided to break up with me. He then decided he didn't want any contact and blocked me on every app possible. 
I was heartbroken for six months or so, I finally got over it and on the first of April I met someone new. A very loving guy, caring and accepting. We're still not in a relationship though, and I don't know why. I don't know if it's because he doesn't like me as much as I like him, or if he's worried we might not be a match. It's making me doubt our future at a whole. I've tried to talk about it quite some times, and even though we've had conversations about it we never came to an answer.

Recently, like two days ago, my ex boyfriend contacted me. I later hung out with him, wanting to know what he exactly was going to say. He told me he missed me and still loved me, which I suposse I do too.

I'm so confused right now, because I genuinely like that new guy, but I do still love my ex, or so I think. What seems like the right decision?

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Your ex will probably react the same way he did last time to your anxiety attacks. I think you should stay with the new guy.

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I always say going back to an ex is a bad idea. They become an ex for a reason. From what you said it not going to be better he is still going to do the same thing.

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No.. if your ex left you at your lowest and even blocked you thats not right. He should have been there no matter how hard it was because that's love. I wouldn't go back to him, it will lead to the same thing

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Stay away from your ex. You shouldn't be w a guy who can't support you through your bipolar disorder

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Dnt go back he will do it again when u are at the lowest. No need to go through that again save yourself a heartbreak again.

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Hey I also struggle with bipolar disorder and have tried everything from counseling to meds.. it really takes a tole on your relationship. It's the main cause of issues in mine. My advice is to try counseling and/or meds if you can handle it.. it can be hard to date someone who is bipolar and it takes extra effort and patience from both people. If you choose to get back together with him I would make sure he knows that he has to be patient with you, bipolar and anxiety are mental disorders it's not just "being moody". And if he's not the right one then someone will come along who will be understanding of that and still work with you and be patient. As long as you are trying to better yourself and help yourself, and he will be more understanding, I don't see why you guys can't make it work.. good luck, that's how I have kept going this long!😊

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I'd say continue with both until they figure it out. Do your thing. Guy who won't commit might never. Guy who left you might be an ex for a reason. Maybe you need someone else. Maybe you need no one. Maybe wait this out. It will solve itself. It always does

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