ladies PLEASE!! I need some advice

Ashley
So.... long story short I have this ex who calls and text out of the blue. All the time, like months will go by days will go by and nothing then he'll call, and just ruin everything like damn I just got over you and now you show up again it brings up so many memeories and we're not together because he doesn't approve of me trying to date when he ignores me for weeks days months!! Like ok so let me just sit right here and let you f*** around while I wait for you to come back around!!!! Please any advice