My husband and I have been TTC for about 4 months.... kind of. Heaven knows I have been ready a lot longer than him; even though he says he is ready, I feel I am putting 110% into it and he is about 30%, MAYBE... my heart is so broken every month when I see a negative. It doesn't help that I have problems keeping a steady AF because of BC complications, and all the stress I have... but if we don't both put in effort it seems less likely it could happen every day...