how do you feel okay with your decision?

Question

I know that this is literally what parenting is but how do you ever come to terms with that the decision you make is the right one and you are doing right by your child? My baby has been spitting up really bad on his formula and I've tried many things and nothing seems to work. I've thought about adding baby rice cereal to his bottles but he's only 7 weeks old some people are telling me yes they did it and it worked some say it's horrible that I will hurt his stomach long term. And I just don't like seeing my son cry due to stomach issues I'm willing to try anything to have him happy but how do I make this decision? What if I choose the wrong one and it hurts him?

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I take zero advice from people without a medical degree when it comes to something that can effect the health of my son. Talk to your doctor about your concerns, come up with a game plan with them. They know your baby's medical history, they know the potential outcomes. Let them guide you. You can feel confident that you have taken advice from an expert based off your child's personal medical history and not what worked best for someone else's child. The internet is great when you're researching what brand of blow dryer to buy, but it's not great when it comes to personal medical/health advice. Talk to your doctor and know that whatever you choose you are doing what you believe is best for you and your child based off the most expert advice you have access to.

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My friend found out her baby was allergic to milk and soy. He spit up, had a high-pitched cry, just fussy all the time. She now uses a special formula and he is so much better.

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I read as much peer reviewed information as I can and choose a decision based on current research. There's always going to be what ifs. Just learn anything and everything you can and make an informed decision.

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Just like those other moms made that decision for their child, You have to do the same for yours. We don't have the cheat book to parenting but we make due and do the best we can. My friend used to give her daughter formula with rice cereal around 6-7 weeks and me on the other hand was too scared and waited until 4-5 months... Both of our girls are healthy and doing good (They're 9 months apart).

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That is the million dollar question.  You just try to do your best and make the most informed decision you can.

In your case, I would recommend working with your pediatrician.  The ped will probably recommend trying different formula (sensitive) or perscribe Meds for reflux.  The ped may eventually tell you to add cereal to the formula, but most likely will want to try other things first.

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You just have to own it and do what you think is best, if it doesn't work or you are wrong then adjust and try something different. I think with the prevalence of the internet, mom guilt is even worse and everyone feels like an "expert". 🙄 
Personally I would consult your LO Dr before changing anything.

how do you feel okay with your decision?

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