We have a problem

I'm 18, my induction is set 3 weeks from now! me and my boyfriend talked and we really decided we want it only to be me and him when the pushing is actually happening. my mom won't take no for an answer. she's basically inviting herself into the room. I also told her I didn't want anyone posting a picture of my daughter until I am able to post one first. she got so upset with me? this entire pregnancy she's made all the decisions... I'm so over it 😩😒