ahh I don't know if I will ever get over this

Long story short I went out with my bf and his friends. I was drinking and was polite to everyone. His one friends gf goes on a rant to him the next morning. My bf shows me the texts and I got upset since he didn't tell her to shut up or anything. The girl was upset because I was rude and didn't say hi to her... I know super lame and petty but still she's just at fault since I could be upset that she was rude to me. Anyways this was last month and I'm still pissed this girl had the nerve to talk about me to my bf and at my bf for not putting her in place. I told my one friend and she's like what if  that happens when you have a kid. ( she has a Kid and has had people say rude things about the child's looks/parents etc). How do I handle this once and for all? Will he change? Or do I put it behind me until it happens again?
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It goes both ways. Did she say hi to you? Even if not, WHO CARES? Tell her to find something else to do with her time. Your man, he needs to stop corresponding with her and stick up for you. Why are they messaging each other anyway? My husband would've asked her already "what is wrong with you?"

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U need to let him know that he should stand up for you. If it were the other way around you wouldve stood uo for him. He needs to respect you in that way but sometimes guys just don't get that. It took my husband a while to stand up for me but once he did he realized that's what he's supposed to do. I would personally have him cut contact with her until she can be nice. You don't deserve to be disrespected and if she does it again tell her she needs to tone it down or yall won't go out around her again. I wouldn't put up with that.