I'm having terrible mixed emotions about what to do. I am 22 and still living with my dad, he's very controlling and there have been numerous times where I've had to physically fight my dad because he's hit me. It hasn't happened for a while but whenever we get into fights he calls me all these mean names like cunt and bitch and so on. We got into a fight a few weeks ago where he told me that I had 30 days to get my shit and leave and not come back to his house. So my boyfriend and I started searching for places to live and we found a place that we're going to get with his sister and her wife. But the other day my dad and I got into another huge fight where he was in my face screaming at me and I had to keep pushing him away from me and at one point he stomped my feet out and just kept calling me names and making me feel like what I'm trying to do in life isn't good enough then after the fight he talked to me and from what it sounds like is he doesn't want me to move out and wants me to stay here until I have everything figured out because I'm in college still and don't have a job. I've never had a job because my dad would never let me get one living under his roof. So now I'm scared to move out. I don't know what to do I don't want to lose my family but if I don't move out I could possibly lose my boyfriend because he's had enough with dealing with the way my dad treats me. I really wish this was all just easy for me and I didn't have to be scared of moving out of my fathers. I really need some advice because anyone I talk to isn't any help at all.