thanks for the "advice" but no thanks

Who else is tired of hearing "stop trying and you'll get pregnant"? When I see posts or comments of people saying I had to wait 4 months to get my positive test, 6 months etc I just want to scream. I'm so tired of waiting and I'm tired of my cycles being so irregular, I haven't had a cycle since March. My doctors can't figure anything out, usually I can keep my feelings below he surface but I'm just done with people right now giving their unsolicited advice. How do you all stay positive when it's been years that you've been trying and haven't gotten a single positive test? I have so many feelings and I just can't put them into words right now.