What do I say to him?!?!

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Ok, so I love my boyfriend. Our sex life is amazing.....except for the fact that I have never had an orgasm with him. EVER. Seven months of great sex with a guy who is not a one hit wonder and can keep going and going and I'm having to fake it. Do I even tell him this?????

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Stop faking it, girl. Admit to it. Might be embarrassing but it will be worth it... you should always be honest during sex. You're just playing yourself.

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LOL! i jus had to i been with my SO going on 5years and ive never had it either some of us can never do it :p

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Just talk to him and don't fake it... I feel like faking it only makes it worse - and he might feel betrayed if he finds out that he was never doing the full job. 
Have you had one before, whether by yourself or with another person? If so, perhaps there was a different position that provided more clitoral stimulation (i.e. on top)...

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Maybe if you tell him, he will figure out different ways to please you and try something new for you. But you won't know unless you tell him

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Def talk to him.. communication is key. Just b easy. Guys get sensitive n think it's their fault. U don't seem to have complaints bout his performances. Just b open bout how fun he is n great u have a time w him to help soften. Don't fake. Guys remember what they r doing when ur excited n go back n repeat things that aren't doing it for u

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Try top.. usually the most common orgasm is clitoral stimulation

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Alright this is gonna sound hilarious.... but the only time I've hit the big O is when he massages my butt while we have sex

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Don't fake anymore but don't just come out and tell him. Explain you want to try different things  but you love your sex life nothing's wrong with it it's amazing no complaints but do not tell him.!! Guys aren't happy to know when u fake. No one is. Imagine he said the same to you. How would I feel? No matter how good he says it is you wouldn't feel good enough if he faked coming every time. Try finding your own spots and getting the job done by getting on top.

What do I say to him?!?!

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