masturbating

Tallulah
okay this might be weird but i've never masturbated before. i'm going to be 18 in a month and i lost my virginity in june of 2016. people always tell me i should so i tried and i dont think i did it right. i sure as hell didn't finish, but i just don't know what to do. like i can't just sit in silence and do it and i don't like porn. any suggestions?