another porn post

Hey ladies, I know there's tons on here about our men watching porn but I wanted to do my own post and get some opinions. Before I get into my current relationship I want to mention my prior relationship: we didn't remotely have the connection I have with my current (sexually, emotionally and all the above). He never wanted to have sex, even in he early stages of our relationship when things were still new. And when we did have sex there was no passion. I felt so disconnected from him, not to mention he NEVER would cum. And he never tried to get me off (had to always always do that myself). Needless to say it made me feel really unattractive and unwanted. Come to find out, he watches a lot of porn. I think he had a serious addiction, so I started to have a problem with it because it affected our sex life. I never really had an issue with porn till then. Jumping forward to current relationship... we have so much love for each other. We have always had great sex with tons of passion. He watches porn from time to time and I hate it. It makes me feel like he's getting turned on by other women and fantasizing about them and cheating on me. Of course he says it's not like that. I have such a stigma about porn now due to my past relationship. He doesn't choose porn over me and we have a healthy sex life but it just makes me feel so insecure. Idk what to do. We haven't talked about it ina while and last time we didn't it didn't go well. He said "all men do it" and that he didn't want to stop but said he wouldn't do it at home anymore. It seems like BS to me and if he loves me and knows it hurts me, then he shouldn't want to hurt me. But then I wonder if I am overreacting. I just don't know what to do. All I know is I don't like the way it makes me feel.