I need help figuring this out

Hey I know I may get a good amount of mean comments about how ohhh you're doing it backwards blah blah.. you're too young . I'm 19 pregnant with my first kid at 6weeks and 2days and I have lived with my "kid" possibly "kids" father since 17 but wait .. I'm not married and I'm completely shaken up... my family is fine but his family is all like "don't you know how it works" "don't you think you should've waited until marriage" LIKE THEY DID IT THAT WAY ?? NO !! they one have noooooo room to speak to me about the path I choose to take in my life because they are for one not going to take care of my kid and for two they are not my damn parents... my pregnancy was no accident we wanted this ... me and my boyfriend are both young professionals.. and we have the finances .. he's the type of person who doesn't listen to what other people have to say but not me ... after we came home I was bawling crying because of the shit they were saying .. I wouldn't even tell him why I was crying for 30 minutes total .. it's kind of fucked up .. and they say slick shit about our baby being half black ... maybe I'm over thinking it.. I'm black and he's white ... and his cousin has a black wife and they came over with their kid and my bf mom goes " I hope you have a boy bc if she ask me to brush her hair I'm sending her right home ... women who said you would be left alone with my kid ????? I honestly don't know how you think with all the damn DONALD TRUMP merchandise hanging around your home.. don't get me wrong I don't hate Donald I don't hate any one but dude his views HELL NO ! I've never been the type to disrespect my elders I was raised better than that but it's just the most slick shit that comes out her mouth ..