Why judge people when they need help?

You know what really irritates me? When someone makes a comment about someone being on the WIC program. When they say: "you shouldn't have had a baby if you have to live off the government and can't support them yourself." Or "I will never have a child unless I know without a doubt that I can afford formula on my own and still live comfortably without living off the state." Let me just set you straight. I do not live off the government. I have WIC for formula and formula only. I don't know ANYONE who can afford to spend 300+ on a predigested formula for their baby and have all their bills paid and still have money left over to live comfortably unless they are on the higher side of middle class. I only have WIC. And it's because of my daughter's milk allergy. I am not "taking your tax dollars". I work. And my SO works. And I am basically using MY Tax dollars. I have all my bills paid every month. I have clean diapers and clothes for my daughter. I make sure that my OPPD bill is paid so that we have a nice cool house. There is food on my table. By the end of all our bills and grocery shopping we usually have about $150 left for gas and if we need an extra can of formula throughout the month. Which runs at $35 a can btw. My daughter is fed. Chunky. And healthy. Weighing 13lbs at 4 months old. So GOD FORBID that we need help to buy formula to make sure she stays healthy. We don't splurge on things we don't need. My SO has holes in all 3 pairs of his shoes. I haven't bought anything for myself since before I found out I was pregnant. Anytime we spend extra on something, it's a new outfit for my daughter. Or new toys. So WHY judge someone and say that people who are on WIC abuse the system. Sometimes people need help. Even if they are doing everything they can. Ugh. I am just so sick of seeing posts from people on FB about how people shouldn't have had kids if they can't afford this or can't afford that. It's irritating and annoying.

Sorry if some of that got jumbled. I'm just really mad.

And thank you to those who read all of that. Just needed to get that off my chest.