Ok so backstory.  My hubby had a huge blow up with his sister a few weeks ago and she uninvited all of us to her twins' birthday party this weekend.  Apparently today she asked my husband if we would go to the party (apparently she is completely over everything even though she said some very very hurtful things about me and my unborn child during the fight but hasn't apologized).  I scheduled myself to work the day of the party since we were uninvited.  I would technically be able to show up late to the party after my hubby and daughter already got there.  I don't feel like I should be expected to go (none of us should except our daughter who was not involved in the fight).  Hubby is just over the moon happy to be reinvited and tried to get me say I'll go but I don't really wanna rush there after work since I am obviously the worst person ever to be in her life (she hurt me more than anyone ever has-I was having contractions due to the stress she put me through that day).