enjoying pregnancy?

I honestly haven't really gotten to enjoy my pregnancy due to stress, work, and my bf's family being such douchebags. Today sent me over the edge when his mother insisted in finding an apartment for us to live in as if I was incapable of being an adult and a mother and knowing what I had to do and what my needs are. I am so fed up with them trying to control everything, I let them have their baby shower and dictate that and now she blatantly says "out of respect I'll hold my tongue" this woman has not liked me from the moment I dated her son (10 yeas ago) and now I'm just like I don't want her any part of my daughter's life or any part of my life and I honestly will not let that woman watch my child for the sake of me. Petty? Maybe but I'm so tired of this woman thinking she is God and she can control me.