Is it possible to cut your hair after you have a baby and not feel like a cliche? My hair is about halfway down my back. I usually go through phases where I love having it long and then out of nowhere I'm done with it and just want to chop it off. I've done this at least four times in the last three years (I really don't cut my hair very often... maybe once a year). The last time I had a haircut was about a year ago, when I was going through post partum hair loss. I didn't go as short as I wanted to though, because I hate those comments that people make about mom chops and mom hair. I am a mom, yes, and I love being a mom, but I AM SO MUCH MORE THAN THAT. I can't look at haircut options without thinking about how momish I'll look and I hate it. Even the funkier styles make me feel like I'd be trying too hard to not look like a mom, and that in itself makes me feel like a cliche. I'm only 24! I'm due with my second baby in December and I'm so conflicted. This all sounds super shallow, I know, but I just don't know what to do. This is kind of a rant, I know, but seriously... does anyone get stuck on things like this?