At what point in your pregnancy did your OB want you to come in for the initial appointment? I got a bfp, call my gyno's office to schedule an appointment and they determined I was four weeks along. They don't want to see me until I'm 8 weeks in. 😕 Is that typical to wait a whole month after a woman finds out? Between this and some other things I've seen (Dr. only wanting a pap every three years instead of each year; Dr. not referring to a fertility specialist for testing after 12 months TTC and no luck) I'm getting a really negative feeling that my OB/gyn is not exactly what you would call proactive, and this bothers me. Is waiting this long for the first appointment normal? How far along were y'all when you had your first appointment?