ungreatful friend 😒

I recently found out my old friend for many years is about 5 months pregnant and the reason no one knew was because she was extremely depressed when she found out she was pregnant and wanted to have an abortion, she's still not happy about it and having a hard time with it. I have a 9 month old son and we have all been hanging out a lot lately I've been trying to get her excited about her baby and doing what I can to be a good friend. 
I found out I was pregnant about 3 weeks ago and had a miscarriage a few days ago. 
I was heartbroken, I was only 5 weeks pregnant. She was excited we were both pregnant at the same time and I figured since I just went through this hard time she would feel thankful for having a pretty easy pregnancy and be happy she's still pregnant but she's still unhappy about it and I'm feeling kin of upset about it. I know it's not her fault but I just hoped at least she'd appreciate her baby now.
Am I a bad friend for feeling this way or should I say something to her?Â