Have you been raped or assaulted?

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Sorry, don't mean to step on any toes here but I think it's important thing to talk about among women. Rape is defined by Washington state law as sex meaning oral, anal or vaginal. Forcing someone to have sex is rape, having sex with someone who expresses a lack of consent is rape. Consent is agreement to any sexual activity. Having sex with a person who is unable to give consent is also rape. If you are mentally or physically incapacitated (due to drugs, being drunk, being ill, being asleep, or being unconscious) you can not consent to sex.

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I have been attacked 3 times. 1 was with the plan to rape. The others was the plan to kill me. My freak accidents I am still here and alive. My first attack an old woman came in and yelled and the boys to get off me. She helped me get my clothes on and told me to chin up. Then she left. The 2nd the boy told me he was going to kill me. He had me held underwater for 3 minutes in the chokehold. Amazingly I hurt his balls bad enough that he let go for a millisecond and I got out of his grasp. The last one I still have trouble talking about. It was a woman.

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Multiple times… I was dating this women for 8 months and every time I was with her she raped me… we lived 30 mins away from each other. Then after we broke up she sent a guy after me and he raped me and got me pregnant. I then proceeded to have a miscarriage- the most painful and emotional thing I have ever been through. I'm only 17 years old and I've lived the life of a 50 year old .

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I'm so sorry for anyone whose been raped or molested..or even if you consented, but still felt insecure or forced into it. //:
I was 13 years old, barely, when I lost my virginity. He was 21, and yes I consented..it was the most horrible thing ever. I had known him only two weeks, he lived with my mom, and had just gotten out of prison. When I moved in, he called me a baby and a little girl, of course making me feel bad. Him and his friends would slap my thighs and ass, laughing ..taking turns, all the while I was trying not to cry..I finally let him..and it was horrible. I knew my virginity wasn't meant to be his /: i didn't want to do it, but he basically gave me no choice...I cried all night.. And for many weeks after.. I refused to have sex with him.. I had never done anything with a guy, no sex or oral.. It all still terrified me. But he forced me to give him head..threatening to tell on me, or telling me I was a little girl.. Pushing me to do it. Forcing me and locking the doors...telling me if I told on him I would be the reason he went back to prison and he would never forgive me. I didn't love him, I was just scared of him. And 4 years later, at 17, I still cannot forget the nasty way he made me feel. 
Any girl or boy who feels molested needs to talk to someone about it...even if you aren't trying to get them arrested or killed! Holding it in just makes you feel like you're to blame. And you're not.

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You know, after reading all of these women's stories...I feel like men think they just have the capability to take control of women and think that we can't do anything about what they do to the girl's who've gone through things like this. I personally haven't been messed with like this before. I don't know what it's like, and I feel sorry for the women that had this happen to them. Men need to realize that we are human and we're all equal no matter what race, gender, religion, etc. We are all equal. Not the same, because everyone is different, but equal. :'(

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I was almost raped by my then boyfriend. I snuck over to his house and he wanted sex but at the time I didn't cause I was only 13 so I said no and he started hitting me and tried to raped me. I still don't feel the most comfortable around men.

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I was touched as a child not raped though I was at a friends house with my cousins we were under the covers with our friends dad and he grabbed me in the crotch and wouldnt let go I was kicking him away and ran out to the living room and I never did say anything to anyone I was to scared to

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Mine is a little less clear then that. I was at this party and a guy was a little tipsy and I was pretty drunk and he forced me to have sex while I was screaming no, other people were in the room and they didn't help at all, and I eventually was able to kick him in the balls and run away. I woke up with bruises on my neck the next day cause he tried to choke me.

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I have been 3x 😢😞😖

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I was raped in 2015. I was 14. I was stupidly using Tinder and met up with a man who said he was 17 but police said he was 25. He also lied about his name. I feel so stupid and feel like it's my fault even though people say it's not. Long story short, he folwed me to my middle school volleyball game and when I saw him I froze in fear and did what he asked. I was scared. He was 6'4 and scary. I shouldve ran away... but I got into his car and he took me to his house. He gave me a beer which apparently had a type of drug that he put which explains why I felt as if I was unconscious. He's on probation now for 5 years was in jail for 10. I still feel as if it's my fault.. the things he did were so horrible. I was so scared to tell anyone but when I did I felt a little better. The person I told ended up calling police for me. I used to go to therapy but I don't know why it never helped. 
But for all the girls out there who have been sexually assulted or any of that wicked evil stuff, I'm sorry and know that you're not alone. Many girls get taken advantage of. And the best thing to do is not be afraid and tell someone.

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I was almost raped.

Got drunk at a party and fell asleep on the couch. Woke up in some guys bedroom and his hands all over me. Called my male FWB to come get me cause I didn't know where I was exactly and still drunk. 
It was scary.
.I don't go to Halloween parties anymore.

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