So my boyfriend has a 16 month old daughter and I have 17 month old daughter and a 3 year old son soon to be 4 years old. & now me and my boyfriend are having our first child together. We have known each other for years. Well His family will come in and not even say hey to my kids or even look their way but will go right to his daughter and pick her up and hold her and play with her but not my kids and I see my kids watching and looking and I can only imagain what's going thru their minds wondering why arnt they getting played with why arnt they getting any attention. My family doesn't do that his daughter I wouldn't let them because it's completely wrong but he don't say anything to them it's mainly his mother I don't like her. She once told him because me and so was fussing and she said that he just loves the bad life...  it really hurts me . Like I don't even want this women to be around our son when he's born or anything we are supposed to be moving in less than a week and I don't even won't her at our new home. & I sure in the hell don't know how to tell my boyfriend that his mother isn't allowed to be around my son or my home. Like as soon as she gets home I go back downstairs to the basement to get away because they just treat my kids so unfair and I absolutely hate it literally brings tears to my eyes i get so mad about it. And then my boyfriend when his daughter comes around he acts like she's so perfect and better than my kids and me and him have had many fights about this because I can't stand that no kid is better than the next. What do I do???