Husband selfish in bed

My husband and I had sex for the first time since April the other night. I'm pregnant and he has told me that having sex in late pregnancy makes him uncomfortable. My sex drive is pretty low right now so I was perfectly fine just giving him head and making him feel good that night. We took it further and honestly, it was bad. He finished, I didn't. But what was more upsetting was that he didn't kiss me the whole time. He barely touched me. I was really upset and we talked about it but it got me thinking about our sex life in general and how he's pretty selfish. In 11 years, he's maybe gone down on me 10 times! 🙄I was a virgin when we met and he was pretty experienced, but I like to think I'm the more adventurous one. I usually initiate (even before my pregnancies) and our sex is pretty vanilla. I bring it up to him but nothing really changes. Ive told him if he wants to try things, tell me and we can go from there but he says he doesn't. I'm bored. He has to be too...unless he thinks it's good?! Sometimes a woman just wants to be taken care of, ya know?