So I have a problem.. my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and sex has never really been good for me.. we have talked about it and tried some new things but it's just gotten worse over the past year.. when I bring up that I'm not satisfied it crushes his ego and that makes sex less exciting for both of us.. I need help to figure out other ways to spice up our sex life because I love him and I want to be with him more than anything in the world but I also want good spontaneous kinky naughty sex. I want him to feel confident in the bedroom. He has a quick trigger problem where he cums too fast and I'm left sort of "flicking the bean" aggressively in the hopes to finish up quickly as well.. I need advice any and all advice on maybe what I could do differently, recommendations on what he could try to do differently or just someone with similar situations who can tell me how they handled it? Don't get me wrong sex isn't a big deal to me which is why I've stayed this long but usually it starts to improve and this is the opposite so I'm not sure what to do but I'm open to anything because I'd like to be with this man and I'd like for both of us to be fully satisfied in the relationship PLEASE HELP.