when people talk about trying for #2 and you're still trying for #1.....

I feel like the TTC journey is like we are all waiting in line for a roller coaster that we have never been on and people get off the ride (have a child) and get back in line behind me (to have another), start complaining about the line not being fast enough (still not conceiving just like me). Here I am still just wanting to ride it for the first time but the people who have already rode it are complaining that they want to ride it again. "It's so amazing and fun! I can't wait to ride it again it's life changing" Some people ditch the line and get a free pass to just jump on, but here I am waiting for my turn to even ride for the first time. I know this sounds harsh, and sometimes I feel bad for thinking this. And I know it sounds stupid/ridiculous... but when will I get to ride? Don't rub it in my face.