Husbands known from the get go.

My mom has known for a few weeks and it's torturing her to wait until I'm ready to announce. I'm 11 weeks today.

I just told me step mom who cried and was crazy and excited and demanded that it's a girl. (I have two boys) now I'm convinced it's a boy because she is wrong about literally everything.

I wish we could just know the gender so I can tell people and add "and yes it's a girl. Or and no it's not a girl, it's another boy and we are happy about it and don't want to hear any pity about "oh that's too bad I know you wanted a girl and blah blah blah."

I'm just annoyed