Pregnant?

So I use a basal body thermometer to tract my ovulation and temps during my cycle. I had sex around ovulation , believe the day after or day of, with a condom. But my boyfriend proceeded to finger me after he had pulled out and ejaculated with the condom. Some time during him fingering me the condom fell off his penis and after we finished he thigh was wet and sticky with his semen. His thighs didn't touch me at all while he was fingering me so I don't think that's a likely possibility. But I've been having a few symptoms of pregnancy so far one being that my period is a day late and is never late. I've felt extremely tired the last few days (but I tend to before my period anyway), I've had to go pee SO much more than ever before the past few weeks, and my gums have been very very sore and tender which I've heard can occur during pregnancy. The last thing is that my temps have shown a steady increase for the last few days when normally it should start to decrease once my period comes. So I'm a bit worried but not sure if I'm being overly paranoid. Also, earlier today I had a very tiny amount of reddish discharge when I wiped and I tend to get that before my period starts , as it starts kind of light and slow so praying it comes soon. Any tips or words of support are appreciated!