Boyfriend disqualified from military

My boyfriend of almost three years was disqualified from all branches of the military today... from self harm scars he has from years and years and years ago on his upper thigh. They are barely visible, they're faded so much. I understand why this policy is necessary, we are both just stumped because this was our plan for our daughter and us. This was what we were counting on. And now we're back to square one 😭