I am not posting this to get a bunch of comments or likes.. this is an empowerment post. My child's father disappeared when I told him I was pregnant ... I lived alone during my entire pregnancy ... never had anyone to rub my feet or tell me how beautiful I looked .. he never appreciated the work it took to carry and deliver our child... so after my daughter was born I made a decision that I would kick some serious ass... mentally, career wise, physically and spiritually ... 6 months post baby and I'm working on all of the above