having a wtf moment
With my fiancé. I'm 4 months post partum from out last pregnancy that ended at 22 weeks. I'm over weight and have been for the last few years. I was making progress with it and was down 30 lbs when I got pregnant. Between the depression of losing our child and being post partum working out hasn't been a huge priority. In may I made a commitment to change my eating and get active. I have sticked to it. But at the end of June we moved and between packing and unpacking prepping my healthy meals just hasn't been in the cards right now. Not meaning I'm eating like shit but just not how I was on a track. Now having my kitchen unpacked I'm fully committed to get back into it. My fiancé who works out daily, was pissed at me when I interrupted his workout when our god daughter got to our house. I literally popped the door open so she could say hi. He got pissed comes in and startes saying shit like I can't get 30 min to myself? Stuff like that. He goes and showers and comes back out while he's in the kitchen and says so when are you gonna start being active again. Knowing how sensitive I am about my weight how dare you bring that up when your pissed off cause it's not because your concerned it's because you just wanna be mean. He goes on to saying "well you might be pregnant so I'm just suppose to be ok with it?" I said what? He said "I'm stuck not going anywhere so doesn't matter huh" meaning doesn't matter what I look like cause I might be pregnant again so he's not going anywhere. I am so fucking hurt. Like he neeeeever treats me like this and he seems to not even care how effected I am. I left him with our god daughter and walked away crying and went in our room. I haven't spoken to him once since he said that. He hasn't attempted to come and apologize he's just sitting his ass out in the living room not bothered by the hurt he's caused me.
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