why doesn't my husband get it?

Ma

Marissa

we've had two miscarriages. this last one in March 2017, although early at 7 weeks, was quite traumatic. he has verbalized recently that he really wants a baby soon. each month I try my best to get us having tons of sex during my fertile window, but he always resists in some way. this fertile window, we only had sex once even though I tried getting him into it more. I feel this won't be our month either. when i bring up how sad I get thinking about babies, he just says I should learn to deal with it. I feel I have no-one to talk to about my feelings and it sucks.

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Ya

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With my husband i would even tell him oh lets try. I would just have sex with him and keep him turned on but i understand some days he's really stressed with other stuff so i just didn't always make it about baby making. We got pregnant righy away but i miscarried. We will be trying again my cycle came back thos week so next week is our goal but we aren't going to stress so much about it.Also men don't go through the physical part thats why they don't completely get it

Ma

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Maybe he feels its becoming a chore. That's how it was with me and my man. So I gave up. I started having fun with it rather than making it routine. I tried new things with him. Did things that were satisfying to HIM. & Here we are. a month and half later with my first ultrasound tomorrow morning!:)