If you and your husband are done with expanding your family, would you ask him to get a vasectomy?

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I think so. If he had any issue I'd back that ish up by replaying those birthing tapes of the amount of pain us girls go through. The least he could do is take one for the team on that and not make us be the ones going in to get tubes tied

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Uhhh if I can carry a baby for 9+ months, open up my vagina and give birth, then lactate...getting a vasectomy is the least he can do. There are implications for long term use of various bc and there are risks for getting a tubal ligation. There is minimal implication or risk involved with a vasectomy. I had 3 with my ex. He got a vasectomy. I've had 2 with my husband. He had a child in his first marriage. We have 6 between us. He needs to get a damn vasectomy. In the meantime we use spermicide and condoms. I track my period. He has until our daughters 2nd birthday or I'm getting a tubal. Which is a surgery. Let's not forget a vasectomy is only a darn procedure. With 3 day healing 😂

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I'll never ask my SO for a vasectomy. We'd talk about all our options together and pick the one we felt was best. I wouldn't want him to ask me to have a hysterectomy so I won't ask him to have a vasectomy either. We will find a solution together and if it turns out to be a vasectomy then great, but I'll never ask.

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My husband and I discussed him getting a vasectomy, but after discussing our options with my doctor, we decided it would be better for me to get my tubes removed. With my history of endometriosis, removing my tubes will greatly reduce my chances of getting female cancer in the future. It was quick, outpatient procedure and I was back to my regular routine the day after.

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i dont think anyone has a right to suggest to another person that they should permanently alter their bodies. married or not.. babies or not.. done or not.. your body is your body and their body is their body. if they decide they want it fine. otherwise..  i would not tell my husband "you have to have your nuts snipped because i dont want to get knocked up". there are ways around permanent alterations.

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I am in a long term relationship and he knows that I do not want children. he is supportive of my decision for a tubal ligation. I would never have asked him to get a vasectomy.

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Once we're done I plan on getting my tubes tied.

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I had my tubes removed vasectomy and tube tie can still get pregnant slim but possible i wanted to make sure there was no way to get pregnant and i wasnt going to take a pill everyday for the rest of my life

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I had my tubes tied

If you and your husband are done with expanding your family, would you ask him to get a vasectomy?

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