So my mother had me when she was 16 but she never took care of me basically she made my grandma raise me and thats the way its been my whole life. I'm now 21. Well , ever since she found out I was pregnant she would act so moody and cry all the time now she's okay but what gets me annoyed is how she always wants to be apart of everything like when I was having contractions and was gonna go to the hospital with my husband she insisted on going with us so she did but she basically invited herself because we never agreed to her coming. they sent me home because my contractions stopped. When we talk about buying a crib she tells us she will go with us. Also at first she was stubborn about being in the delivery room with us but I'm thankful that she finally said okay that she won't be in with us but the thing that's annoying me is today my husband jokingly told my mom my water broke and my moms like I know youre joking but dont do that because when its really time were not gonna believe you. I said " when its the real thing were not going to tell anyone " and hes like " yeah we dont plan on calling or telling anyone until the baby is born " my mom got so bothered she said she wants to go with my grandma and be in the waiting room basically she wants to leave with us in our car when my husband takes me to the hospital.