Can someone tell me if I'm wrong?

So my wedding anniversary is September 14, our very first one. My sons birthday is September 3, he's turning 3. I requested to off from work on the 14 (which lands on a Thursday) for our wedding anniversary, & he only requested to be off at night. Which I'm okay with it's a whatever. But then I told him to request the 16th(Saturday) off as well because we're supposed to be leaving to Orlando for the weekend for my sons birthday. He's off every Sunday & Monday, so he's not requesting those days off. He's saying he's not going to because he's losing hours & blah blah. Mind you we're not struggling financially, we are pretty good. I'm I wrong to be mad that he doesn't want to get that day off? Like I hate people who prioritize money. Money doesn't mean crap to me, family & quality time mean the world to me. It really does hurt me, I feel like just telling him that I'll go alone with my family then. Like I just want my son to enjoy a full weekend versus one day. I'm I wrong?