I have been deciding weather i want kids in the future or not. Although I know this will change a lot but the real question here is: does the first time you have sex hurt? I have never had sex as I am only 15 years of age and I kind of want to get it over with but I know there will be feelings attached, and I want to do it with the right person! But most teenage boys will say anything to get in your pants and have no feelings for you! So I need help! Does the first time have sex hurt? And should I do it with someone special? Sorry this is so long!