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Help! can't get over that idiot!

So girls, I want to get over my ex, who I know is a complete idiot, for multiple reasons. But even if I keep reminding my self that he is an idiot, I still miss him.

And what annoys me the most;

There is not only one reason for him leaving me. Which confuses me. Even though I know, I shouldn't think about it. But I can't stop, so please girls, help me.

1st. Reason, the one he told me:

He messed up, which he is very sorry about, so sorry he can't even look at me, because he can se how much he hurt me. He misses me, but can't forgive himself. He don't deserve me (that one he got right!)

2nd reason, he told a friend:

He started to think and miss his ex.

(Makes a little sense, and fits the first reason very well)

3rd reason, told another friend:

I was too sweet. Giving him a too long leash. Not giving him any restrictions.

4th reason, told to a totally other friend:

I was too clingy. Control freak. Not letting him do what he want. Too many restrictions. And trying to be older than I am. (I was older than him)

Everyone of his friends thinks he is a dumbass for breaking up with me. And they always told me I was too nice, because I didn't made any restrictions, unless he crossed my lines, and something like that.

I know this is stupid, but this is keeping me up at night 😓 I don't want him back, I just want to understand and move on.

The breakup happened so fast, and didn't make sense.

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