My world felt like it was turned upside down on March 13th. We found out that my 12 week pregnancy had ended. The baby didn't have a heartbeat. This was my second miscarriage. Although I am very thankful and blessed for my 8 year old son. I have fertility problems so when I found out after 4 years of trying we were so excited! So a couple weeks after my d&c;, a member of my husbands family came up to me on a Good Friday get together and said she was pg. Of course they weren't trying. It was like a ton of bricks hit me. The way she went about it was like she has no remorse for what I had literally just went thru. She's very young and maybe just immature. Well I got a text message yesterday asking if I want to be a hostess for her shower. I haven't been able to look or speak to her much less be a part of her shower. I don't want to go at all. I'm afraid my husbands family may get upset w me. Has anyone had a similar experience? How did u handle it?