I woke up this morning to this message from my MIL who also sent to DH: "Me and dad would like to know what we did to yall for yall not to let us to see our grandson. He does have two sets of grandparents i think". she is referring to the fact that even though we live closer to her, MY parents see my son more. 1. my parents come to OUR home every weekend to see their grandson. 2. DH doesn't take our son to their home bc they have big dogs in the house and let them jump on him. 3. they have underlying family issues that DH really needs to work out. 4. they didn't show up three times we've invited them for family functions and wait to invite us to functions an hour before we are supposed to be there. 5. they let my baby slide off of a kids table in their house when he was 6 wks. old and luckily I was there to grab him up. all of this among other things. I'm so frustrated that he is not just dealing with her, we both discussed it's not my place. they have to be in the right place with one another before I can be a part of it. we talk about it often but he just doesn't confront her. I don't need negative comments I just really needed to vent. I am at my breaking point.