Helppp

I have tried many different ways on masterbatuing, hair brush end

Makeup brush

Electric toothbrus

Fingers

Shower head

Mascara bottle

I have never orgasmed, last night I tried with my fingers while reading something that turned me on and there was a bit of cum but no orgasm, the shower head does nothing for me so the hairbrush handle while lying down in the shower is my favourite however I don't feel even close to orgasm. Can anyone give me some advise? (Ps I'm a virgin, i don't know if that would change anything?😂)