Okay so our son is going to be 5 months old on the 24th and I will be turning 27 on the 25th. Every year we go to seaside heights with my mom and brother.. since I was little. This year my husband can't go because he got a new job.. and he doesn't have pto even though they would let him take it unpaid. I am a SAHM since June 2nd and he doesn't want to miss out on work .. even though we have the extra money and my mom pays for everything. She is already there and I was going to leave with my brother today. but my husband was being a jerk and making me feel guilty about it. I still might go after my bday since she will be there until next Saturday. My mom is upset with me for not going and he was mad at me for going without him since it would be the baby's first time at the beach. I asked him to compromise and just go for a few days and he won't. Is it messed up if I go anyway??