Independence

Is it okay to want to be some sort of Independent in a marriage?

I've been with my husband for 8 years. And we've been marred for 2 years. When he got together when I was really young. I was 18 and he was 22. So I always leaned on him for everything. I didn't gain my independence until 2 years ago when I had a mental break down. I also suffer from depression and anxiety. I broke completely down and for months I shit everyone and everything out. It took me almost 3 months to build myself back up. And that's when I realized I don't want to be dependent on a person wether he's my husband. Is that wrong?