Had sex to soon?

I think sometimes it happened to soon he was my first lost it at 18 we talked for about three months before it happened. about two months later he asked me out. He is selfish in bed. I haven't orgasmed once. He will pull out. I have the implant. And when he finishes he gives an excuse as to why he finished fast. Then he teases me about always being horny. When I'm with him I want to do it all the time but to him it's like "we are only going to do it because I want to." or at least that's how I feel. Was it too soon? Or just the wrong guy?