So many awful husbands! Are there any good ones?
I feel like all I read on this app is how awful everyone's husband is. Don't get me wrong, everyone deserves a safe place to vent, especially if they have an emotionally or physically abusive relationship.
But while being on this app, I realize how lucky I am. My husband drives me nuts sometimes. And there are times that I feel totally taken advantage of. But I truly feel lucky to have the relationship I have. So many women on here have talked about divorcing their husbands because they caught them watching porn, or because they liked a pic on Instagram of a woman in a bikini. Or they've mentioned that their husbands won't let them go out at night, or won't let them have a vibrator.
My husband doesn't control anything I do. He doesn't care if I use my vibrator or watch porn, doesn't care if I have male friends or if I go on vacation with girlfriends. Last night I was out until 4am visiting with a friend I haven't seen in a year. His only response was "hey lovey, I hope you had fun tonight". I'm a teacher on summer break with no intention of return to school, but I have no idea what else to do- and he isn't even rushing me. He's so supportive of my decision to take my time and figure things out.
These pictures are from this morning. He had a planned fishing trip which he had to get up at 5:30 for. When I got home I noticed he forgot to do a few things so I did it for him and left him a note. These were the texts I woke up to (we slept in separate beds last night so we wouldn't wake each other coming and going. I knew he'd use the guest shower so he wouldn't wake me, so I got everything ready for him. Today after he got home he hugged me and told me that this morning when he woke up he thought "this woman. I don't even deserve her". 😍😍😍
Everyday isn't rainbows and butterflies. Like I said, there are days he drives me nuts and I drive him nuts. But I'm realizing more and more that I have such a good relationship in comparison to some.
Ladies, tell me about your amazing husbands, brag on them a little. And brag on yourself a little! What do you do to show them you love them?

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