So, I have a regular basic situation. I’m a 22 year old mother of 6. Y’all are probably like,”Holy shit, you have 6 Kids at only 22!?!.” 3 of them are biologically mine and the other 3 are step. I’m at the point in my life now, where I’m not happy with my weight. Im at my heaviest that I’ve been at in my life (220). After I had my first 2 kiddos I bounced back, no problem. But, after my 3rd it was kinda hard. I lost my baby weight, but then got on the shot and gained it back plus more. I’ve talked with my husband multiple times about me losing weight and he’s given me mixed answers. Some of the things he’ll say is: “You’re beautiful the way you are” “Who you tryna look good for?” “I’m okay with you losing weight, but you can only lose x amount.” “I don’t want you to lose your butt and thighs”

He has supported me and then he kinda hasn’t. I understand he thinks I’m fine the way I am, but I’m not at all happy with where I’m at. When he and I got together I was around 170. I was fine as hell 😂😂 Part of me thinks the reason why he doesn’t support me 100% is because he thinks I’m trying to look good for someone else, and I’m not. I want to look good for me and him, plus my kids. My thighs and butt aren’t going anywhere, that’s genetics at its best. Lol. Y’all I just need support and motivation. My mom supports me 1000% but she lives 2 hours away. She does shakeology and 21 Day Fix, so I get all kinds of info from her. I just need more support and motivation. I’m open to all of your opinions and comments. I don’t expect rude things, cause quite frankly there isn’t anything to be rude about. Thanks y’all 😊☺️ (below is a pic before Kids, and then a pic after my 3 Kids)

Before

After