My parents and relatives seem to think that I should be modelesque and lose even more weight than I started with. I gained 45lbs with my pregnancy and I'm a FTM. I've lost 51lbs. I want to lose 15 more (I was slightly overweight when I became pregnant). I've had body dysmorphia in the past and my family is pretty old school and harsh about weight. The next day I gave birth, my dad asked me why I was still fat because my mom fit in her pre- baby jeans right after giving birth to get second child. My husband is sweet but thinks I've lost weight only because of breastfeeding and thinks most women just lose the weight. What is your post partum journey in regards to this like?