So me an my so are going on a cruise in September to Mexico, an I was talking with a friend an she asked if our three year old son was going an I told her no, should I feel bad for not taking my son Ima. Cruise? I felt like this was suppose to be me an my fiancés time before our little one gets here in march. She made me feel very un comfortable an not to get me wrong I would take him if he was older. An we do things with him but things more on his level like the zoo. Small water parks and things like that. What's your opinion? She said she would take her daughter but I'm just not comfortable with taking my son. Should I feel bad for a lone time with my fiancé also his dad??