Update to my last post, mad at my husband.

Anyway he never came home last night because he was 2 hours away (we are in Costa Rica his home country) buying and selling cows with his father. His father is an alcoholic. Anyway the roads are insanely windey here in CR, dirt roads, so quads are legal. They stopped at a bar on the way home and got so smashed on the way home he stopped at his brother in laws house to say hi and he passed out as soon as he hit the couch. I'm happy that he stayed the night there but just mad that he was so irresponsible.

At 9am he left his brother in laws to go to the farm with his dad (his dad hitched a ride and came home at midnight leaving my husband there and went back in the morning) at around 11, they were on the way back. My husband doesn't have a cellphone here, so I haven't talked to him at all. (His brother in law called me last night to tell me what happened) I called his dad at around noon and they were close to the house but sitting in a bar again. At 3pm his dad came home drunk ass and didn't know where my husband went, he left on the quad before his father. So me and my sister in law went out looking for my husband. He is 2 minutes away at a bar by himself. WHYYy ??!! You didn't have enough alcohol last night??! He wasn't as drunk as his dad, but he should not have been driving this quad. He knew I was upset so I just went back in the car and my sister in law drove the quad home and my husband sat in the car while I drove. He came home, ate and just passed out on the couch. We haven't talked in like 2 days.

Idk why he is being so irresponsible and drinking so much 😰 he is 35!! he doesn't drink too often but when he does he usually gets drunk and can't control himself. He said when we get back to the states, he wants to be healthy and won't touch one beer... idk if I believe him ☹️ idk what to say to him to make him realize I can't take this.... he is my soulmate and when I get mad I scream which I know he will walk away from me if when he wakes up I start screaming at him. Any advice?? 😒