advice

me and my bf been together almost a year now and most of are arguments be about me not wanting to spend time with his family now let me tell u why I don't want to be around his family every time I do go around them they talk about me to the point I get upset n my bf say that mean they like you they just be playing n I take everything to serious n if they don't talk about u that mean they don't like u but I don't like that shit so I keep my distance n only go to there house on special occasions am i wrong