Not meant to be

Have you ever felt like youre not meant to have sex with someone? Because my boyfriend and I have been together 3 years and we just had sex for the first time a couple months ago... it was like a full 5 minutes and then i freaked out because it was my first time. Then a cop pulls up to my car... 🙄😳. Ok so a couple months later and we tried to have sex again. Well we used a condom and it made him to slippery where he kept slipping out of my vagina... and then the condom broke -_- soo that ended it.