hey girls bf advice

so my bf hates texting me and hardly ever answers my calls and I've spoken to him about it a number of times and he claims its just because he'd rather my be with him and he doesn't see the point of texting but he'll try to text memory often, although he hasn't and itsreally pissing me off so much that I feel El like I'm wasting my time but everytime I go to get angry or anything I realisethat I love e him an I don't stay annoyed but this time I want that to change I want to Stay feeling and get annoyed at him until he he shows me respect and actually takes my feelings on board any Tips on how not to stop being annoyed before getting mypoint across