Should your mom know when you've lost your virginity?

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(I'm 21, in college, and still living with my parents and I still don't feel comfortable telling her these things because my parents are strict and I'm afraid they won't accept my relationship with my boyfriend anymore)

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I'm almost 21 and haven't told my parents I was sexually active. Not because I was embarrassed or anything just didn't feel like it was something they needed to know. My mother only found out I wasn't a virgin for sure (I'm sure she already knew) from me this year when I told her I was pregnant

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I would want to know if my daughter was under 18 because I think it would then be my responsibility to take her to the dr for BC. Over 18, idc because then she is grown

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my mother told me whenever i think Im ready to let her know and we'll get birth control. Told her when i was 16 we got the pills I never had sex 😂😂
Fast forward to 18 I told her the night after lol. Condom was used though.

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I'm 24, married, and still haven't told my parents hahaha well obviously they know now but I don't talk about it. It's just between me and my spouse. You are old enough to keep that information to yourself. Unless you need your mom for any emergency things steaming from sex.

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I didn't lose my virginity until I was 22, (a year ago). My mom and I are very close but I didn't tell her because it doesn't make a difference. You having sex doesn't change who you are as a person and she shouldn't look at you differently because of it. It's non essential information to your relationship with your parents. My mom found out because she went with me to a doctor's appointment because I needed a major surgery, and my doctor asked me if I was sexually active and I said yes. But I didn't just walk up and say "Hey by the way!" If she asks, I wouldn't lie about it, but it's not information you need to offer.

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It's your choice if you want to. I haven't told any of my family that I lost my virginity when I was 15.

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If you want her to. My mom told me she knew from the look on my face after it happened lol so I just told her. She wasn't mad.

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