I want my rainbow baby, badly. My child was born still at 41 weeks. I'd gained about 45lbs by the time I gave birth. I've lost 25 and I would like to lose 25 more. I was 135 when I conceived so I wasn't overweight, but I'm wondering if I should wait until I have lost all of the weight to conceive again. Of course, I would like the be the healthiest I can be, but I am also desperately wanting to conceive right away. I have no doubt I'll gain 45lbs again because that seems to be the pattern with my pregnancies. I'm not sure if I should wait to lose the lbs or attempt conception now? Can anyone weigh in? No pun intended lol.